I agree we shouldn't continue if we can't accept each other as we are. The only thing they value it's themselves and their career. I tell her there's no pressure and we'll just see how things play out. I don't think I can do it again. I've been doing it wrong. Her experience may or may not be typical, but it is something to consider. I hate to say it, but I don't see this ending well. Since her father is a bishop, I'm sure he'll want to have his daughter marry a temple worthy person.
I still love my Heavenly Father and my Savior. At parties, they drink soda and play board games. Make sure she knows the plan, so you both can dress appropriately. But I have no idea how much of his lack of contact is actually due to him being busy or if that's just an excuse to not commit.
Usually, when Mormon girls marry non-Mormon men, these women forsake their religion and revert to ordinary American woman. That settles it for me. Honestly a lovely man but the sheer focus of time and attention has meant there is little if any left for me, I'm lucky if I get 5 minutes in comparison with some nights of 2 hours going on and on and on about work. So that may be the end of it there. If you have children how will they be raised. How do you really feel about that.
Sorry if I gave that impression. Most of all it's lonely. After his mission he lost faith on everything for some reasons.